I hear my hair stylist say this all the time. I’m a total sucker for saying things like that because it makes me sound like I know what I’m talking about.
I like to think that hair stylists are actually pretty good at their jobs. They know they can make you look absolutely fabulous and they seem to realize how to do that in a way that makes you look awesome. There’s a saying that goes around that a good hairstylist is like a lifeguard at a pool. If you don’t want to be drowning, you have to make sure you’re swimming.
I think this is a bit of a false dichotomy. I mean, yes, a hair stylist could be a lifeguard at a pool. That is, if you let them know what you want. But at the end of the day, a lifeguard at a pool is probably not going to know what you want. The pool itself is a pretty big unknown.
Like most things we do, I think a hair stylist knows what they want and they are willing to let us know. But there is a problem with this. The best hairstylists are usually the most passionate about what they do. They will be in the best shape and have the best haircut. So when they are not in that state, the end result might look like shit.
The same is true of all human relationships. A lot of times we can go into the bathroom and start the day by talking about our love for our favorite lipstick. And then, as the day starts to go by, we might start to feel like we aren’t really a part of the community as we’ve only talked about our love for lipstick.
We have all been there. At some point in your life you’ve been in a relationship that wasnt working out. You were spending time with someone but it just wasn’t working and you wanted out/ left. At some point you have all of a sudden realized you are not the only person in the world who wants to be in a relationship, and you want to be the one who isnt making this a big deal.
There are so many ways that we can communicate with our romantic partners, and for some it is as simple as having them leave the house and let us help them with their makeup. For others though, we are still in a position of needing to maintain the connection. Hair stylists are a great place to start for both of these reasons.
Everyone has a little bit of a secret, a little bit of a secret that they want to keep from the world. Hair stylists in particular are in the midst of a constant battle with our society’s obsession with body image and the constant pressure to look beautiful, but we think they can be at least a little bit more than that.
You’ll probably start to notice that the word “secret” has been replaced in the media by the word “shovel” for some reason. I don’t know why, but I feel like this is the way it is.
This sounds like a great idea, but it’s not just about the hair stylists. For example, you can use a hair stylist to make your own hair look less intimidating. The hair stylist does not need to be in the spotlight to make your appearance more attractive and also make your hair look like an oversized hat. I know some people who are looking for a “sane” hair stylist but don’t have any of the hair stylists in the world.