I wish I could believe that my 17th birthday was the happiest day of my life, but I know that it wasn’t. I’ve always known that I have something to be happy about, but until recently I didn’t know what it was. All I knew was that I was happy.
I don’t think I’m the only person who has this experience.
So, I guess that means we can count the people who have said that they dont have any positive feelings toward their birthday as having a negative attitude towards theirs. I think it’s like saying that every day is the best day of your life, so you should go out and drink way too much, but you know there’s no bad days.
Asking ourselves what we’re really happy about is a great way to discover what is ailing us. You might find that you are more likely to be in the mood for a good laugh than a good cry. Or that you have become a bit resentful of your spouse. Or that you have a new partner. Or that you just want a big hug from your mum. Or even that you want to take that one last deep breath before you actually blow your nose.
It’s an interesting question to ask. What we mean by “a good cry” is that we really feel the emotion of tears. However, the opposite of “a good cry” is “a bad cry.” It’s a different emotion, and in the case of a good cry, we might end up crying again, but then we’re probably fine.
The reason we cry is that we experience emotion as we breathe, and that’s what we do when we’re in a state of sadness, anger, fear, happiness, or any other emotion. In other words, when we’re in an emotional state, we experience it as we are, rather than as a result of the external event.
The reason we cry is because there’s a reason why we do that. We cry when we are upset, unhappy, and sad. We cry because we believe we deserve to cry. When we are in the midst of a sad or fearful state, we cry not out of sadness, but out of a need or desire for comfort and protection. When we are in a positive or happy state, we cry for reasons that are positive.
Some of my favorite post to read on this blog is a meme from my friend, Ryan, called “I’m Just Wearing a T-Shirt”. This meme is a little bit like a “T-shirt” meme; it says a little bit about your personality and style.
That’s how I feel about my posts on facebook. They are filled not with sadness, but with a desire for comfort. I like to keep my posts from my first few years on this blog because I think it gives them a certain personality. I like to try to capture a certain type of person, whether that’s a jolly, happy, or sad person.
The blog post is very much about you and your personality. It’s a reminder to you not to take things too seriously, but to enjoy the simple things in life.
